Compass Points

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I learned something valuable at Hahvhad.

During one of our group work, we were asked to categorize ourselves according to our working style.  Here are the categories:

North: You’re a let’s do it type of person. You like to jump right in and start doing the work, or if you come across a good idea, you want to implement it immediately.

South: You are person who likes to ask everybody’s opinion before you act. You take people’s feelings into consideration before going forward.

East: You’re a big picture type of person. You like to examine your options and test the proverbial water before you jump in and start doing the work.

West : You’re detail oriented and you like things that are systematic  and  in order.

After the categories were defined, I and my fellow school administrators were asked to group ourselves according to our self-perceived working styles. I thought for a second and then I got up and strutted my self to the East Side like George Jefferson.

So I’m an East Side boy who likes testing the water and looks at the big picture while I weigh my options. Ok, now I know why it took me forever to decide whether to buy the crimson Hahvhad shirt or the gray one.

I tried on both color shirts in both medium and large. I read the label to see if the shirts will shrink upon washing. The number or times that I’m going to wear the shirt were also considered. After I decided on my shirt, then I had to go through the same process for the rest of the family. Now you know I have a big family, right? The good news was that I had plenty of time to kill.

If I was pressed for time, then I would have “perpetrated” and would have acted as if I was from the North Side. Can you just imagine if I were a Southerner? Thank goodness!

On a serious note, the activity reinforced my long held notion that the reason why our school is successful is because our administrative teams represent all the compass points. We complement each other very well and as a result we are able to form a formidable team.

My marriage is also the same. We recognize each other’s strengths and weaknesses (not that I’m saying that my wife has weakness because she doesn’t) and we use this knowledge to create a harmonious home for our children.

What about you? Do you know your compass point and the compass points of your colleagues or your family?

  1. Marelisa Said,

    I’d say I’m a North, although I think we should recognize which one is our natural tendency and then try to consciously incorporate elements of the other three personality types (or compass points) in order to be more effective.

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  1. Kyddryn Said,

    I think my compass needle is constantly spinning…if it hasn’t fallen completely off and lay twitching and spasming on the ground. No, I am NOT schizophrenic! I’m just…versatile.

    Shade and Sweetwater,
    K

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  1. RC Said,

    I love these personality exercises, and have done a lot of them. By the definitions on this one, I think I’m South and the Hubby is East. We’ll have to wait and see with Little Dude.

    Yes, all personality types are valuable - and even if you can’t stand someone else’s perspective, you need to recognize their values to the team.

  1. Robin Said,

    Hi Chris - I think I’m all of the above points at different times and in different situations!

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  1. Dette Said,

    I can only pick one?

    Well, Mr. Jefferson, I’m cheating. I’m a NW kind of gal. Hell, sometimes even South. Sometimes.

    But Hubz? He is with you on the East Side. Thank God, coz I’m always going a million miles an hour (he’s even dubbed me Mario Andretti in the car). I love how we balance each other out. =)

    Dettes last blog post..Because I’m stretching, okay? Sheez!

  1. purpledsky Said,

    uhm, can i stay on the northeast? ok, so i’m one confused girl :-) but i’d really love to think i’m like kaddryn. versatile :-D
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  1. Tara R. Said,

    I think am a South… I like to get other opinions, hear other ideas, then pick a little here, a little there… a buffet so to speak.

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  1. vered Said,

    I’m North. My husband is East. It’s working pretty well so far. :)
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  1. I’m probably North-East. For some things I just jump right in, but other things will make me ponder on the whole picture.

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  1. MizFit Said,

    hmmmm if forced to pick one? Id say north.
    which is great and not so :)

  1. Rebecca Said,

    I am definitely a “west” sort of girl…

    Extremely.

    Sigh…

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  1. The Urbane Lion is East and I am North. Although, depending on moon alignment, Aquarius in 7th house, etc, (smile) we can be found in other points. However, in general this is how it works. Which is a very good thing! The Lion have fantastic ideas, and sees the big picture, but there it stops. Nothing ever gets implemented. I am more of the woo-hoo, I have an idea, let’s do it, type gal. Which means I could be missing out on a much more interesting way of doing something. So, now we have a process. The Lion dreams out loud of all his schemes and ideas, and I narrow it down the one of them, and get us working on it.

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  1. Grandy Said,

    I’ve participated in this exercise under many different names. I am always in the North Eastern quadrant. Ironically I am usually one of very few in this quadrant, but I am always there.

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  1. Oy, I don’t think I could pick just one. I think I’m a “south-easterner.” It’s difficult for me to jump head-first into big projects without stepping back for a moment to see the big picture.

    This is very interesting. I’m curious how my husband and I relate to this. It makes sense that you and your wife compliment each other well for a happy home :)
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  1. faeryrowan Said,

    “…(not that I’m saying that my wife has weakness because she doesn’t)…” — >You’re a very good husband! Hehehe!

    Anyway, as for my compass…I believe I’m like post people here who can’t seem to settle on one point to describe themselves. I’m a little of everything. Yes, sadly or not, my compass needle, too, is constantly spinning. So does that mean I’m…ummm…lost? *grin*

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